Sunday, 8 July 2018


Nurungukal…..
      When I think of football the first name that comes to my mind is Sait Nagji foot ball tournament at Manchira in Kozhikode. The only event we fondly  awaited to happen apart from the annual exhibition at Zamorin’s ground. Unlike now, we never went to put up holdings along the streets of Kozhikode. To be frank I never even bothered to know about the records made by the legendaries around the world. Now when you hear the running commentary of a match  the stalwarts can tell you how many times a player had taken his breadth in 90 minutes of play and how tenderly he might have thought about the twins he would have while playing a crucial match. The only thing that bothered us was, from whom  we can squeeze  few chips to buy the tickets. It can be possibly by selling the news paper without the knowledge of our sister-in-law or by surreptitiously extracting some loose notes from our brother’s pocket. We neither had sufficient funds to put up a flex costing thousands of rupees, nor had the time. We were happy  if we could manage to enter the arena with a cone of fried pea nuts. But we were lucky in those days to enjoy the  live performance  of the famous Indian player like Thankaraj, Goswamy,Chidanandan, Zulphikkar, Olympian Rahman etc. etc.  Otherwise we were satisfied with the commentary of Padmanabettan or with the review of Wimzy in Sport and Pastime. Invariably on many an occasion we had to be contend with enjoying the roar from inside the stadium while leaning on the parapet wall of Mananchitra, embracing a cool sea breeze. If inside, the performance of many a permanent spectators who used to station at designated spots added spice to our enjoyment. Suicides and quarrels were unheard of in those days.
      There are many like me in this part of kerala and world over anxiously expecting that the Sait Nagji  tourney would be revived to provide an annual fiesta  and more over to encourage the local young talents. Let those who spend thousands for those who earn in corers and Kozhikode Corporation think of creating a corpus fund  to bring back a lost glory of Malabar.

Saturday, 7 July 2018


Nurungukal….contd…
    Wayanad is blessed with the active presence of three officers, a veterinary surgeon, an agriculture officer and a dairy extension officer, with whom I have a close liaison. Although they work in different departments ,have lot of similarities in their work culture. They have an excellent field record, which have made them standout.
     A few months back one of them organised a mango fest. The event had his Midas touch, with an extensive collection of mangoes which to me was a reminder of my childhood days.Out of the many a few of the native varieties  crept into my memory and I traversed back many years back nostalgically.When the other participants were vociferously debating on the merits and demerits of each mango, me unknowingly wandered into a past, scaling heights on a swing which my father used to arrange for us on the branch of the granny mango tree, with a partner, none other than our neighbourhood girl, to the envy of the other lads. 
The visuals in my mind about the dash we used to make to collect the yummy small ripe mangoes which might have fallen in the rain the night before , ahead of the other children reach them, no sooner we get up from bed, ignoring the shouting of my mother, awakened me from the slumber. Even the fruits which had been tasted by the bats or squirrels never frightend us about the NIPPO virus in those days.
         The other two both laddies are sprightly and energetic . In their own impeccable way they organised official duties to the welfare of the stake holders of their respective fields.If one is quick to take decisions the other is an expert in presentation having a good command over English and Malayalam.
         Iam keeping the name of these officers antonymous, frankly speaking to keep away from the wrath of others.  If the official fabric is devoid of the services of such dedicated officers, I used to wonder about the fate of our society. My salute to them……..

Saturday, 24 March 2018


Nurungukal……
                The tractor carrying two large tanks of water, collected from a nearby river was shuttling from morning till late evening. I have been noticing this since last summer. It is very clear that many wells in the area have gone dry and locals are forced to depend on this source. One can very well imagine the intensity of an impending disastrous draught. This apprehension has induced me to offer my land to dig a pond sponsored by the Block Panchayat. Now the work is progressing in top gear as they have to finish it before the end of the financial year. When I heard about the cost, running into a few lakh rupees, I wondered how much would have been spent to dig a temple pond a few thousand years ago, considering their size, which in some case extend up to more than an acre. Such huge infrastructures would have been designed with the sole intention of harvesting rain water, because a small pond would have met the demand, considering the population of those days. What a foresight our fathers had, which the present rulers lack. There are plenty of such man made eco systems, scattered though out the length and breadth of Kerala. Many sacred groves and nearby ponds are even today maintained on certain believes and rituals which help conservation of water and biodiversity. Where as many laws of recent times lay dormant with out efficacy.
       Last year I had an occasion to visit the well known Sree Rama temple at Thiruvangad. Apart from the majesty of the temple complex, what attracted me most was the enormity and perfection of the adjacent pond.  It is a fabulous piece of engineering and human effort. Another piece of architecture is the pond of Peralassery. The vastness of Panniyur  Varahamurthy Temple pond near to Anakkara fills your mind with divinity and peace. As I was enjoying the serenity of the crystal clear water column of Thiruvangad pond, my thoughts for a while wandered into a distant past. Splashing of children, gasping to reach the shore, in a similar pond [chira ] in my native place Ponnani.  And about the fun we used to enjoy in a pond attached to our ancestral home in the company of a gang of boys and girls, often competing to touch the other bank first or embark on an errand to fetch a blossomed water lilly like the legendary Bheema. I seldom witness such frolics in our social life now, instead encounter lonely souls immersed in meddling with a gadget incessantly for hours.  
         It is a sure sign that we are wandering into an alien culture abandoning one which had values attune with nature and sustainable living. The so called developments have made much in roads into our modest and time tested standard of living. Unaware of the dangers we have lost the way. Let us jointly under stand the mistakes and thrive to come out for the sake of the survival of our future generations.




























 Nurungukal……

                The tractor carrying two large tanks of water, collected from a nearby river was shuttling from morning till late evening. I have been noticing this since last summer. It is very clear that many wells in the area have gone dry and locals are forced to depend on this source. One can very well imagine the intensity of an impending disasterous draught. This apprehension has induced me to offer my land to dig a pond sponsored by the Block Panchayat. Now the work is progressing in top gear as they have to finish it before the end of the financial year. When I heard about the cost, running into a few lakh rupees, I wondered how much would have been spent to dig a temple pond a few thousand years ago, considering their size, which in some case extend upto more than an acre. Such huge infrastructures would have been designed with the sole intention of harvesting rain water, because a small pond would have met the demand, considering the population of those days. What a foresight our fathers had, which the present rulers lack. There are plenty of such man made eco systems, scatered though out the length and breadth of Kerala. Many sacred groves and nearby ponds are even today maintained on certain believes and rituals which help conservation of water and biodiversity. Where as many laws of recent times lay dormant with out efficacy.
       Last year I had an occasion to visit the well known Sree Rama temple at Thiruvangad. Apart from the majesty of the temple complex, what attracted me most was the enormity and perfection of the adjascent pond.  It is a fabulous piece of engeneering and human effort. Another piece of architechure is the pond of Peralassery. The vastness of Panniyur  Varahamurthy Temple pond near to Anakkara fills your mind with divinity and peace. As I was enjoying the serenity of the crystal clear water column of Thiruvangad pond, my thoughts for a while wandered into a distant past. Splashing of children, gasping to reach the shore, in a similar pond [chira ] in my native place Ponnani.  And about the fun we used to enjoy in a pond atatched to our ancestral home in the company of a gang of boys and girls, often competing to touch the other bank first or embark on an errand to fetch a blossomed water lilly like the legendary Bheema. I seldom witness such frolicks in our social life now, instead encounter lonely souls immersed in medeling with a gadget incessantly for hours.  
         It is a sure sign that we are wandering into an alien culture abandoning one which had values attune with nature and sustainable living. The so called developments have made much in roads into our modest and time tested standard of living. Unaware of the dangers we have lost the way. Let us jointly under stand the mistakes and thrive to come out for the sake of the survival of our future generations.







































      Nurungukal……
                The tractor carrying two large tanks of water, collected from a nearby river was shuttling from morning till late evening. I have been noticing this since last summer. It is very clear that many wells in the area have gone dry and locals are forced to depend on this source. One can very well imagine the intensity of an impending disasterous draught. This apprehension has induced me to offer my land to dig a pond sponsored by the Block Panchayat. Now the work is progressing in top gear as they have to finish it before the end of the financial year. When I heard about the cost, running into a few lakh rupees, I wondered how much would have been spent to dig a temple pond a few thousand years ago, considering their size, which in some case extend upto more than an acre. Such huge infrastructures would have been designed with the sole intention of harvesting rain water, because a small pond would have met the demand, considering the population of those days. What a foresight our fathers had, which the present rulers lack. There are plenty of such man made eco systems, scatered though out the length and breadth of Kerala. Many sacred groves and nearby ponds are even today maintained on certain believes and rituals which help conservation of water and biodiversity. Where as many laws of recent times lay dormant with out efficacy.
       Last year I had an occasion to visit the well known Sree Rama temple at Thiruvangad. Apart from the majesty of the temple complex, what attracted me most was the enormity and perfection of the adjascent pond.  It is a fabulous piece of engeneering and human effort. Another piece of architechure is the pond of Peralassery. The vastness of Panniyur  Varahamurthy Temple pond near to Anakkara fills your mind with divinity and peace. As I was enjoying the serenity of the crystal clear water column of Thiruvangad pond, my thoughts for a while wandered into a distant past. Splashing of children, gasping to reach the shore, in a similar pond [chira ] in my native place Ponnani.  And about the fun we used to enjoy in a pond atatched to our ancestral home in the company of a gang of boys and girls, often competing to touch the other bank first or embark on an errand to fetch a blossomed water lilly like the legendary Bheema. I seldom witness such frolicks in our social life now, instead encounter lonely souls immersed in medeling with a gadget incessantly for hours.  
         It is a sure sign that we are wandering into an alien culture abandoning one which had values attune with nature and sustainable living. The so called developments have made much in roads into our modest and time tested standard of living. Unaware of the dangers we have lost the way. Let us jointly under stand the mistakes and thrive to come out for the sake of the survival of our future generations.







































      











      


Nurungukal……
                The tractor carrying two large tanks of water, collected from a nearby river was shuttling from morning till late evening. I have been noticing this since last summer. It is very clear that many wells in the area have gone dry and locals are forced to depend on this source. One can very well imagine the intensity of an impending disasterous draught. This apprehension has induced me to offer my land to dig a pond sponsored by the Block Panchayat. Now the work is progressing in top gear as they have to finish it before the end of the financial year. When I heard about the cost, running into a few lakh rupees, I wondered how much would have been spent to dig a temple pond a few thousand years ago, considering their size, which in some case extend upto more than an acre. Such huge infrastructures would have been designed with the sole intention of harvesting rain water, because a small pond would have met the demand, considering the population of those days. What a foresight our fathers had, which the present rulers lack. There are plenty of such man made eco systems, scatered though out the length and breadth of Kerala. Many sacred groves and nearby ponds are even today maintained on certain believes and rituals which help conservation of water and biodiversity. Where as many laws of recent times lay dormant with out efficacy.
       Last year I had an occasion to visit the well known Sree Rama temple at Thiruvangad. Apart from the majesty of the temple complex, what attracted me most was the enormity and perfection of the adjascent pond.  It is a fabulous piece of engeneering and human effort. Another piece of architechure is the pond of Peralassery. The vastness of Panniyur  Varahamurthy Temple pond near to Anakkara fills your mind with divinity and peace. As I was enjoying the serenity of the crystal clear water column of Thiruvangad pond, my thoughts for a while wandered into a distant past. Splashing of children, gasping to reach the shore, in a similar pond [chira ] in my native place Ponnani.  And about the fun we used to enjoy in a pond atatched to our ancestral home in the company of a gang of boys and girls, often competing to touch the other bank first or embark on an errand to fetch a blossomed water lilly like the legendary Bheema. I seldom witness such frolicks in our social life now, instead encounter lonely souls immersed in medeling with a gadget incessantly for hours.  
         It is a sure sign that we are wandering into an alien culture abandoning one which had values attune with nature and sustainable living. The so called developments have made much in roads into our modest and time tested standard of living. Unaware of the dangers we have lost the way. Let us jointly under stand the mistakes and thrive to come out for the sake of the survival of our future generations.







































      
Nurungukal……
                The tractor carrying two large tanks of water, collected from a nearby river was shuttling from morning till late evening. I have been noticing this since last summer. It is very clear that many wells in the area have gone dry and locals are forced to depend on this source. One can very well imagine the intensity of an impending disasterous draught. This apprehension has induced me to offer my land to dig a pond sponsored by the Block Panchayat. Now the work is progressing in top gear as they have to finish it before the end of the financial year. When I heard about the cost, running into a few lakh rupees, I wondered how much would have been spent to dig a temple pond a few thousand years ago, considering their size, which in some case extend upto more than an acre. Such huge infrastructures would have been designed with the sole intention of harvesting rain water, because a small pond would have met the demand, considering the population of those days. What a foresight our fathers had, which the present rulers lack. There are plenty of such man made eco systems, scatered though out the length and breadth of Kerala. Many sacred groves and nearby ponds are even today maintained on certain believes and rituals which help conservation of water and biodiversity. Where as many laws of recent times lay dormant with out efficacy.
       Last year I had an occasion to visit the well known Sree Rama temple at Thiruvangad. Apart from the majesty of the temple complex, what attracted me most was the enormity and perfection of the adjascent pond.  It is a fabulous piece of engeneering and human effort. Another piece of architechure is the pond of Peralassery. The vastness of Panniyur  Varahamurthy Temple pond near to Anakkara fills your mind with divinity and peace. As I was enjoying the serenity of the crystal clear water column of Thiruvangad pond, my thoughts for a while wandered into a distant past. Splashing of children, gasping to reach the shore, in a similar pond [chira ] in my native place Ponnani.  And about the fun we used to enjoy in a pond atatched to our ancestral home in the company of a gang of boys and girls, often competing to touch the other bank first or embark on an errand to fetch a blossomed water lilly like the legendary Bheema. I seldom witness such frolicks in our social life now, instead encounter lonely souls immersed in medeling with a gadget incessantly for hours.  
         It is a sure sign that we are wandering into an alien culture abandoning one which had values attune with nature and sustainable living. The so called developments have made much in roads into our modest and time tested standard of living. Unaware of the dangers we have lost the way. Let us jointly under stand the mistakes and thrive to come out for the sake of the survival of our future generations.



























 Nurungukal……

                The tractor carrying two large tanks of water, collected from a nearby river was shuttling from morning till late evening. I have been noticing this since last summer. It is very clear that many wells in the area have gone dry and locals are forced to depend on this source. One can very well imagine the intensity of an impending disasterous draught. This apprehension has induced me to offer my land to dig a pond sponsored by the Block Panchayat. Now the work is progressing in top gear as they have to finish it before the end of the financial year. When I heard about the cost, running into a few lakh rupees, I wondered how much would have been spent to dig a temple pond a few thousand years ago, considering their size, which in some case extend upto more than an acre. Such huge infrastructures would have been designed with the sole intention of harvesting rain water, because a small pond would have met the demand, considering the population of those days. What a foresight our fathers had, which the present rulers lack. There are plenty of such man made eco systems, scatered though out the length and breadth of Kerala. Many sacred groves and nearby ponds are even today maintained on certain believes and rituals which help conservation of water and biodiversity. Where as many laws of recent times lay dormant with out efficacy.
       Last year I had an occasion to visit the well known Sree Rama temple at Thiruvangad. Apart from the majesty of the temple complex, what attracted me most was the enormity and perfection of the adjascent pond.  It is a fabulous piece of engeneering and human effort. Another piece of architechure is the pond of Peralassery. The vastness of Panniyur  Varahamurthy Temple pond near to Anakkara fills your mind with divinity and peace. As I was enjoying the serenity of the crystal clear water column of Thiruvangad pond, my thoughts for a while wandered into a distant past. Splashing of children, gasping to reach the shore, in a similar pond [chira ] in my native place Ponnani.  And about the fun we used to enjoy in a pond atatched to our ancestral home in the company of a gang of boys and girls, often competing to touch the other bank first or embark on an errand to fetch a blossomed water lilly like the legendary Bheema. I seldom witness such frolicks in our social life now, instead encounter lonely souls immersed in medeling with a gadget incessantly for hours.  
         It is a sure sign that we are wandering into an alien culture abandoning one which had values attune with nature and sustainable living. The so called developments have made much in roads into our modest and time tested standard of living. Unaware of the dangers we have lost the way. Let us jointly under stand the mistakes and thrive to come out for the sake of the survival of our future generations.







































      












      

Friday, 9 March 2018


Nurungukal…….
      I always used to hesitate to take a phone call early in the morning. Because nowadays often it would be from the secretary of our milk society seeking help to shoot a problem from one of the collection units or a relative to convey a bad news. But this time it was from my friend who is a known ornithologist. I was fascinated by his enquiry  as to whether squirrels are frequenting my premises now or not. I said yes and wanted to know about his intention. I was still more surprised when he said that a student from a Tamil Nadu University is  here to study about them as part of her Phd studies.
    She was just out of her teens and almost gate crashed into my court yard in a scooter, which she managed  from a local friend. It was about eleven a.m., a time when usually squirrels hesitate to roam about, especially now when the mercury is much above the normal. My  first question was why did she choose this subject. She answered without hesitation that squirrels have an important roll to play in seed distribution. I was convinced and lead her to places in my compound where they frequented and left her to carry on her job.
         As I returned home humming ‘annara kanna va …….’ I tried to visualise a very old incident.  After a chase to catch a squirrel which fell from our roof I could manage to grab its tail and to my dismay only the  furry skin of its tail remained in my hand and it escaped unhurt. Much later in my life I knew that squirrels shed their skin as a defence mechanism to dodge from  predators.Similarly all of us might have noticed how agile they are to escape from the clutches of a charging cat, by taking refuge on a coconut tree followed by a shower of agree chatter.
    I know him only as my childhood friend who brought down ripe mangos from a towering granny tree. Many a time  ripe mangoes fell from their tiny hands, which would have otherwise remained out of reach to our watering mouths. looking at their despair and agree face for loosing the catch, reminded us about the proverb ‘andi poya annan’. 


      Their tenacity to build a nest with balls of coir fibre is a lesson to us. In pairs they move around to collect the fibre. After meticulously rolling it into balls they carry them to the selected place in their small mouth and arrange a nest with the dexterity of a trained craft man. In the case of humans a strenuous schooling might be needed to accomplish such tasks.  But here its only a gift of the nature.
    Above all what made me admire this small animal was its  roll in building a mighty bridge to help Rama in his endeavour to retrieve his beloved. Whether the three strips on its back is a mark of gratitude by Rama for  the voluntary gesture  or an impression of  truth in the proverb ‘annara kannanum thannalayathu’ is left to our imagination. The fact remains that it is not the size but the intention and magnitude of the service which has to be acknowledged.
        Nature has bestowed upon on him an important responsibility of propagating seeds , which he is doing relentlessly without expecting a reward or award. There are many like him carrying out a silent revolution to help the humanity. Yet many among us crave to be known as cultivators, conservators and saviours. I wish the study of this budding scientist from Tamil Nadu would help us understand better, our roll in saving Mother Earth and how small is our wisdom and effort in that matter……

Saturday, 3 March 2018


Nurungukal………contd…
     A function to celeberate the marriage of  a close relative is always an oppurtunity we enjoy to meet our childhood partners. Invarriably most of them flock enblock. A few months back we had such an occasion. In my case  no doubt a bunch of flash backs emerged crystal clear.
        Like ducklings we used to traverse many a mile in search of fun and adventure. Our village was a model to provide a set of creativity. Each day was special. There was no prompting and we made use of any thing that came handy, either to make a foot ball out of hay, or a  hocky ball with a hard nut of pine tree, Even a hut with all the traditional rooms, with left over coconut leaves and to cook a meal using what ever we could manage to squeeze from mother’s kitchen.
     In those days a wedding ceremony had some unique events which ensured the participation of even tiny tots. For e.g: A set of beautifully dressed girls would be arrayed at the entrance of the venue which always was a panthal in the court yard and not any hired auditorium ,to sprinkle rose water when the groom’s party enters.  They used to mischiviously take liberty to make the spray lavish on their favourites. The groom had to pass through a gang of naughty tots who used to peep through the gaps in the crowd, and ocassionaly making funny comments. Teenagers who would move about in flocks never missed an opportunity to have a glimps or pass comments on their opposites. I still remember how we used to rush, pulling and pushing each other to grab a lemon and a tiny bocquet from the silver plate which one of the elder boys would be struggling to keep away from our onslaught, immediately after the  ceremony. Next is an attempt to be a member in the team of food servers and invrriably one of us would  be lucky to be assigned to serve a minor item like salt. Because those days one should know where each item has to be served on the plantain leaf.  The whole premise become a hub, like a bee hive, so energized and vociferous. Each participant had a pre determined roll to play irrespective of age and everyone was conscious  about it.
      But lo, nowadays I used to feel like a stranger when a set of uniformly attired girls ushered in by an event manager, welcomed you with a forced smile and folded hands at the gate and guided you to your seat. Even the close relatives appear to be insignificant before the event manager. Not to mention the interference of the vedio and photographers.
      
    Today I just avoided the smile of the strange girls and also the welcome drink served in a paper cup and entered the auditorium. It was cool inside and the hall was packed yet silent. We managed to find seats in the middle of a row avoiding to stumble upon any body. I looked around to locate any familiar faces. The couple near to me was not comfortable with my restlesness. After a frantic search I managed to identify one with a grey hair waving at me from the other end of the row. When I focused on him I could, to my joy identify a full row of familiar faces, waving their frail hands in union. Then every thing happened in quick succession and we managed to gather around the eldest of the lot to exchange pleasantries.
               After a patient waiting, the door of the dining hall was opened like that of a sanctum sanctorium of a temple. After a struggle we could manage to find seats although in defferent tables. Once again I tried to sharpen my ears to the shouts of Appu Menon who used to, in our old days control the meals distribution. But unfortunately I could hear only the cracking sound of a trolly carrying a big rice bowl. But I refused to snatch away from the past and visualized the towering Appu Menon standing before me and jerking dexterously from it just the adequate quantity of fine traditional cooked rice into my leaf. Before I could come to myself I found my leaf full of rice and sambar scattered all over. I finished eating in haste , fefusing to taste the payasams served in paper cups, as an attempt to keep fresh my memories of the golden days. There was a serpentine que waiting to wish the newly married. As we moved towards it the strange girl appeared once again to stop us for a while which I accepted with reluctance, but giving me an opportunity to slumber into my sweet past………


Nurungukal………contd…
     A function to celebrate the marriage of  a close relative is always an opportunity we enjoy to meet our childhood partners. Invariably most of them flock en block. A few months back we had such an occasion. In my case  no doubt a bunch of flash backs emerged crystal clear.
        Like ducklings we used to traverse many a mile in search of fun and adventure. Our village was a model to provide a set of creativity. Each day was special. There was no prompting and we made use of any thing that came handy, either to make a foot ball out of hay, or a  hockey ball with a hard nut of pine tree, Even a hut with all the traditional rooms, with left over coconut leaves and to cook a meal using what ever we could manage to squeeze from mother’s kitchen.
     In those days a wedding ceremony had some unique events which ensured the participation of even tiny tots. For e.g: A set of beautifully dressed girls would be arrayed at the entrance of the venue which always was a panthal in the court yard and not any hired auditorium ,to sprinkle rose water when the groom’s party enters.  They used to mischievously take liberty to make the spray lavish on their favourites. The groom had to pass through a gang of naughty tots who used to peep through the gaps in the crowd, and occasionally making funny comments. Teenagers who would move about in flocks never missed an opportunity to have a glimpse or pass comments on their opposites. I still remember how we used to rush, pulling and pushing each other to grab a lemon and a tiny bouquet from the silver plate which one of the elder boys would be struggling to keep away from our onslaught, immediately after the  ceremony. Next is an attempt to be a member in the team of food servers and invariably one of us would  be lucky to be assigned to serve a minor item like salt. Because those days one should know where each item has to be served on the plantain leaf.  The whole premise become a hub, like a bee hive, so energised and vociferous. Each participant had a pre determined roll to play irrespective of age and everyone was conscious  about it.
      But lo, nowadays I used to feel like a stranger when a set of uniformly attired girls ushered in by an event manager, welcomed you with a forced smile and folded hands at the gate and guided you to your seat. Even the close relatives appear to be insignificant before the event manager. Not to mention the interference of the video and photographers.
      
    Today I just avoided the smile of the strange girls and also the welcome drink served in a paper cup and entered the auditorium. It was cool inside and the hall was packed yet silent. We managed to find seats in the middle of a row avoiding to stumble upon any body. I looked around to locate any familiar faces. The couple near to me was not comfortable with my restlessness. After a frantic search I managed to identify one with a grey hair waving at me from the other end of the row. When I focused on him I could, to my joy identify a full row of familiar faces, waving their frail hands in union. Then every thing happened in quick succession and we managed to gather around the eldest of the lot to exchange pleasantries.
               After a patient waiting, the door of the dining hall was opened like that of a sanctum sanatorium of a temple. After a struggle we could manage to find seats although in different tables. Once again I tried to sharpen my ears to the shouts of Appu Menon who used to, in our old days control the meals distribution. But unfortunately I could hear only the cracking sound of a trolley carrying a big rice bowl. But I refused to snatch away from the past and visualised the towering Appu Menon standing before me and jerking dexterously from the bamboo basket, just the adequate quantity of fine traditional cooked rice into my leaf. Before I could come to myself I found my leaf full of rice and sambar scattered all over. I finished eating in haste , refusing to taste the payasams served in paper cups, as an attempt to keep fresh my memories of the golden days. 

          There was a serpentine cue waiting to wish the newly married. As we moved towards it the strange girl appeared once again to stop us for a while which I accepted with reluctance, but gave me an opportunity to slumber into my sweet past………